
Legal Checklist for Arranging Elder Care (UK)
Introduction When an elderly loved one needs extra help, families often face a critical choice: should we opt for live-in
One of the biggest concerns families face when arranging care for an elderly loved one is how to pay for it. If you find out that your parent isn’t eligible for local authority funded care (perhaps because they have savings above the threshold or income that puts them out of range), you fall into the “self-funder” category. This means you’ll be arranging and paying for care privately. The costs of home care – whether it’s a carer visiting daily or a full-time live-in carer – can add up significantly. But don’t panic: with careful planning and knowledge of available resources, you can make private funding of care manageable. In this article, we will discuss various options for funding home care out-of-pocket, from using savings and pensions to tapping into benefits and financial products like equity release or annuities. We’ll also share tips on budgeting and controlling costs while still ensuring your loved one gets the support they need.
First, it’s useful to have a ballpark idea of what home care costs privately, so you can plan accordingly:
Knowing the likely monthly burn rate for care helps determine how long existing funds will last and whether you need to bring in additional funding sources.
For example, if Mum has £50,000 in savings and needs a live-in carer (~£4,000 a month), that savings would last just over a year on its own. That’s why it’s crucial to maximize use of other resources and plan for the long haul.
Before diving into personal finances or complex financial products, make sure you are claiming any state benefits and entitlements that can help with care costs:
Every bit helps. Getting AA, for example, could cover maybe 5-6 hours of home care a week. That might be an extra bath visit or a sitter so you can rest, etc.
After benefits, the primary source of funding care is often the person’s income and savings:
An important consideration: make the money last. It may be tempting to pour in tons of care early on, but if the person’s needs might increase, preserve some funds for later when 24/7 care might be essential. Use just enough care to keep them safe and well and adjust as needed. If you overspend and deplete assets too soon, the person might then fall on council funding but perhaps with fewer choices.
Speaking of which: once savings drop to the low £20k’s, definitely contact the council to reassess for funding support . You don’t want to wait till money is gone; it takes time to arrange new funding.
For many older people, a significant asset is their home. If your loved one owns a house and is receiving care at home, that house is not counted by the council for means testing (as long as they live in it). But it can be a resource to fund care:
Deferred Payment Agreement (if relevant): If eventually the person did move to a care home and still owned a home, councils offer deferred payment (a loan against the home value) so you don’t have to sell the house immediately to pay fees. But again, for home care, that’s not in play since the home isn’t counted and they won’t fund until savings are low.
Using housing wealth is often how people afford long stretches of care. Just ensure to get professional advice so you understand implications (for example, equity release might limit the ability to later rent out or could have early repayment penalties if circumstances change).
There are specific financial products designed to fund care
Immediate Needs Annuities (Care Annuities): These are offered by some insurers: you pay a one-time lump sum (premium) and they guarantee to pay a regular income towards care fees for the rest of the person’s life. It’s like buying a pension specifically for care. The amount of the lump sum depends on the person’s age and health (they medically underwrite – ironically, poorer health means cheaper annuity because they expect to pay out for fewer years). For example, you might pay £100k to get an annuity that pays £10k/year towards care fees for life. If the person lives longer than expected, this protects from running out of money, as the insurer covers however long. If they die early, the insurer keeps the remaining money (though some annuities have refund or capital protection options at extra cost).
All these options typically require advice from a financial advisor specialized in elder care planning. An advisor can help weigh an annuity versus drawing down investments or using equity release. Some advisors have a CF8 qualification (Certified in Long Term Care Insurance). Given the complexity, and potential large sums, professional advice is highly recommended to avoid missteps.
Sometimes family members pitch in financially:
Also, note that giving money to the elderly person to fund their care could potentially be considered deprivation of assets from the giver’s perspective if that giver later needed means-tested benefits, etc. But usually it’s fine; more relevant is not to give away the elder’s money to others if they might need funding, as councils may see that as trying to avoid care costs.
If funds are tight, consider some creative solutions:
Financing care isn’t a one-time set-and-forget. Circumstances change:
Speaking of charitable grants, there are some charities that offer grants for specific needs or to certain professionals (like if your parent was in a certain industry, their benevolent fund might help). Turn2Us is a site to search for grants. These are usually small one-offs for equipment or short respite, but worth a look.
At Prime Eldercare, many of our clients are self-funders looking for cost-effective yet high-quality care solutions:
Funding care privately can be daunting, but by leveraging all available benefits, carefully using assets, and considering financial products and family support, you can create a sustainable plan. It often ends up being a patchwork of sources – a bit from pension, a bit from savings interest, some from Attendance Allowance, maybe a contribution from family – that together cover the monthly bills.
The key is to plan early. If you foresee care needs, start thinking about funding before crisis hits. And involve your loved one in decisions if they’re able – it’s their money and life, after all.
Finally, don’t sacrifice quality out of fear of costs. There are ways to economize, but ensure your loved one’s essential needs are met. Sometimes spending a bit more on good care can prevent costlier issues (like falls leading to hospitalization).
If you’d like help navigating care options and their costs, or to find an excellent carer within your budget, Prime Eldercare is here to help. Contact us to discuss your situation. We can work out a care arrangement that provides great value for money and, most importantly, keeps your loved one safe and comfortable.
(For a wider look at navigating both private and public funding, check out Guide 3: Funding Care in the UK – A Comprehensive Guide, which our team has compiled to help families understand council means tests, NHS funding, and private funding strategies in one place.)

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