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Introduction When an elderly loved one needs extra help, families often face a critical choice: should we opt for live-in
When arranging care at home, one of the biggest choices is between live-in care and hourly visiting care. Both options allow your elderly loved one to remain in the comfort of their own home, but they differ in level of support, cost, and lifestyle impact. This article breaks down how live-in care works versus hourly care visits, so you can determine which model best fits your family’s needs and budget. We’ll compare the pros and cons of each, including affordability, flexibility, and the type of care provided.
Hourly care (also known as domiciliary care or visiting care) involves a professional carer coming to the home at specified times to deliver care, but not staying overnight. This model is suitable when the individual does not require constant supervision, only help at certain intervals.
Key features of hourly visiting care:
1. Coverage and Support: Live-in care provides continuous, 24/7 support – great for someone who cannot be left alone safely for long (due to fall risk, night wanderings, etc.). Hourly care provides intermittent support – suitable if the person can manage on their own most of the day except certain tasks/times. If your loved one requires frequent help or just the reassurance of someone always present, live-in is advantageous. If they only need specific help and are okay the rest of the time, hourly may suffice.
2. Cost Considerations: For low care needs (under ~6–8 hours a day), hourly care is usually cheaper. You pay only for what you use. For extensive care (10+ hours a day or near-constant supervision), live-in care often becomes more cost-effective. For example, 8 hours of hourly care at £15/hr is ~£120/day (~£840/week), comparable to a typical live-in rate – but live-in covers the whole day, not just 8 hours. Also consider if the person would otherwise be in a care home: care homes average £949/week for residential – live-in at £850 is actually less.
3. Lifestyle and Routine: Live-in care means having someone else in the house round-the-clock. This provides immediate help whenever needed, but it also means adjusting to sharing your home. Some seniors really appreciate the companionship and security this brings; others are more private and feel a loss of solitude. Hourly care allows more privacy – the carer comes and goes. The trade-off is that during the hours no carer is present, the individual must manage alone. Consider your loved one’s personality: do they feel anxious when alone, or do they cherish being by themselves? Live-in ensures they’re never alone (which can reduce anxiety for many). Hourly respects more personal space but could leave long gaps without support.
4. Caregiver Consistency: With live-in care, typically one primary carer (or a small rotating team of two) provides the majority of care. This consistency helps build a strong bond and understanding of the person’s needs and habits. In hourly care, especially if many hours are needed, often multiple carers will cover different shifts or days. You might have one carer Monday–Friday mornings, another in evenings, another on weekends. This can be a pro or con – more variety of social interaction, but also less consistency (some seniors get confused or anxious with many different carers). If continuity is a priority (common in dementia care), live-in has an edge.
5. Household Support: Live-in carers usually do light housekeeping as part of their role (keeping the home tidy, laundry, preparing meals). They become an extra pair of hands in the household. Hourly carers often have specific tasks per visit and may not have time for broader household chores unless scheduled (e.g., you might book a separate 2-hour cleaning visit). So if maintaining the home is an issue, live-in covers that more holistically.
6. Social and Emotional Aspect: Live-in care often leads to a deep companionship – the carer can engage in conversation, hobbies, accompany on outings, etc., throughout the day. It can greatly alleviate loneliness. Hourly care provides social interaction during visits, but the person may still experience long periods of isolation in between, unless supplemented by family visits or social activities. If your loved one is very lonely or prone to depression when alone, having a live-in companion can dramatically improve their emotional well-being.
7. Family Involvement: Consider how much family or friends can fill in gaps. If family lives nearby and can check in daily, maybe a combination of that plus hourly visits works. But if family is far or busy, live-in care ensures someone’s always there without relying on family for coverage.
8. Flexibility: Hourly care is more flexible to start or stop – you can gradually increase hours as needs change, or cancel with short notice if circumstances improve or change. Live-in care usually involves a contractual arrangement (often with a notice period of a couple of weeks to terminate). However, live-in care can also be short-term (many agencies offer it for a few weeks post-hospital, for example). Think about whether you foresee the need being temporary or long-term. For a trial, families sometimes start with hourly care and then move to live-in as needs increase, or vice versa (start live-in after a hospital discharge, then scale back to hourly if the person recovers).
9. Space and Accommodation: Live-in carers require a spare bedroom and a reasonable standard of accommodation. Not all homes have this. If your loved one’s home is too small to accommodate a live-in carer comfortably, hourly care might be the only option (or you might consider alternative housing). Hourly care doesn’t require providing room and board to the carer.
10. Night-time Needs: If your loved one frequently wakes at night disoriented or needs toileting help, live-in care covers that (though note, some agencies charge extra if regular extensive night help is needed, or may require a second carer for overnights). With hourly care, you can arrange a waking night carer or an overnight sleep-in, but doing that every night gets pricey and involves multiple carers. Live-in may handle occasional night needs as part of their role. So for 24-hour reassurance, live-in is superior.
Summary: Choose hourly visiting care if your parent has lower care needs, values privacy, and has periods of independence – for example, they only need help with bathing and a bit of meal prep, and are otherwise okay alone. It’s cost-effective for a few hours a day or week. Opt for live-in care if your parent has higher or unpredictable needs, feels unsafe or lonely alone, or you want the continuity and comprehensive support of one main caregiver in the home. It often becomes economically sensible once care exceeds 6–8 hours a day or includes night supervision.
Many families actually combine the models at different times. For instance, you might use hourly care initially, and transition to live-in if the condition (like dementia) progresses. Or use live-in care temporarily after a hospital stay, then scale back to hourly. The good news is both options provide individualized care at home, which 97% of older people say they prefer over moving into a care home .
If unsure, consult a care professional or care agency assessor who can evaluate your situation. They might even suggest trying hourly care with increased frequency versus live-in, and see what works best. Keep your loved one’s comfort and safety at the heart of the decision. Either way, home care – whether live-in or hourly – allows your loved one to stay in the place they know and love, with support tailored to their needs.
Call to Action: If you need more guidance on choosing the right care model, Prime Eldercare offers both live-in and hourly visiting care. Contact us for a free assessment – we’ll help you weigh the options and find a solution that best fits your loved one’s needs and your family’s peace of mind.

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